People Will Not Appreciate What They Have Until They Lose It.

只有失去了,才学得去珍惜.

我们人总是在追求,追求更美好的东西.但我门什么时候停下来看看我们已经拥有的呢.生活太现实了,我们总是觉得缺少什么东西，一直都不满足.

其实，如果你去想一想，实在有太多的事东西值得我们感激用心去感恩.一切的一切,都是我们的财富,一切的我门佣有的都值得我们感恩。

有追求是必要的,可是在追求的同时,享受分享已经拥有的财富.应该是最好的生活态度吧. 

不要失去了,才学得去珍惜

People Will Not Appreciate What They Have Until They Lose It.

We, human are always pursuing something better and better. But we don't know when we should stop, and see what we already have right now.
This is the reality of life. We always think that we lack of something, always feel unsatisfied all the time.

Actually, if you and me thinking over about it again and again, we'll realize that there is so much things worth for us to be grateful of. 
We should grateful of everthing we have now. 

Has something to pursue is very important, but during the pursuing, enjoy and grateful of what we have now, should be the best life attitude.

 

I have been thirsting for a pair of new shoe all along until I saw some people who had lost their feet.

There`s a story :A person is ill in bed many years and now he is dying. Doctor tells him and his family member, his life will not be long. Hopeless he only can lies down on the bed prays to God: "God please let me live!" He has really lived for several years. This caused his prayer to be more diligent, and prayed the content also changed: "God, please let me go down for a walk!" When he can walk then he starts to change the prayer word: "God, please let me obtain a sum of money......" . Desire without limits, is not joyful all because is not content. Said has a person, she feel regret and unsatisfied because she doesn`t have a new pair of attractive shoes. One day, when she saw someone with no feet, he will be no longer feel unsatisfied because of no having a new shoes. So, always thank God of what you have now, don`t ask for more and more. 

有个故事说：一个人卧病在床多年，行将就木。医生告诉他和他的家人，他去日无多了。无望的他只能双手合十，十分虔诚地躺在床上向上帝祷告：“上帝啊请让我活下去吧！”果然，他活了几年。这使他的祷告更勤快了，并且祷告的内容也改为：“上帝啊，请让我下地走走吧！”当他可以下地乱走时，他又开始改祷告词：“上帝啊，请让我得到一笔钱吧......”。欲望无止境，不快乐都因为不知足。说是有一个人，他一直为自己没有一双漂亮的鞋而遗憾。一天，当他看到一个没有双腿的人时，他就不再为没有鞋子感到遗憾了。

俗話「知足常樂」就告訴了我們：感覺心安就是享受豐富的精神生活。
The saying "Happiness lies in contentment," tells us that feeling at ease is enjoying rich spiritual life.

Words From Mother Theresa

人们经常是不讲道理的、没有逻辑的和以自我为中心的
不管怎样，你要原谅他们
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

即使你是友善的，人们可能还是会说你自私和动机不良
不管怎样，你还是要友善
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

当你功成名就，你会有一些虚假的朋友 和一些真实的敌人
不管怎样，你还是要取得成功
If you are successful, you will win some false friends
And some true enemies; Succeed anyway.

即使你是诚实的和率直的，人们可能还是会欺骗你
不管怎样，你还是要诚实和率直
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

你多年来营造的东西 有人在一夜之间把它摧毁
不管怎样，你还是要去营造
What you spend years building, Someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

如果你找到了平静和幸福，他们可能会嫉妒你
不管怎样，你还是要快乐
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

你今天做的善事，人们往往明天就会忘记
不管怎样，你还是要做善事
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Be good anyway.

即使把你最好的东西给了这个世界 也许这些东西永远都不够
不管怎样，把你最好的东西给这个世界
Give the world the best you have, And it may never be enough;
Give the world the best you have anyway.

你看，说到底，它是你和上帝之间的事
而决不是你和他人之间的事
You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It is never between you and them anyway.

德兰修女
From Mother Theresa


 

Being Friends With the Opposite Sex

Being Friends With the Opposite Sex


Almost everyone has at least one friend of the opposite sex. Sometimes it may be hard, while other times it's great having someone there to talk to and understand your relationship as the same sex as your partner.

It's hard to not cross the line. Being friends with the opposite sex means spending tons of time together. However, you must know your boundaries of what you can and cannot do or talk about. It is quite common for the male or female in the friendship to have a crush on the other person. This leads to many difficulties. Although, if it's pointed out from the start that the relationship will not grow more than just a friendship, it may be a blessing.

A crush obviously means feelings for the other. So, when one is in trouble, they can go straight to their friend and talk them through it -- many times being more sincere than others.

Although this sounds great, it could lead to problems. If the friend keeps his or her feelings to himself/herself for a long period of time they could explode, leaving heartaches on both sides of the spectrum. Even if the feelings aren't kept bundled up, heartache may be in order once the other finds a partner. Which, may also end up hurting the partner, making them jealous or forbidding the friends to see each other.

Most friends of opposite sexes are great from the start, but fade in time. However, friendship may become more; many friends become spouses later on, be it ten or twenty-years down the road. Most just need to realize their true feelings for the other before becoming serious.

 

The Guide to Friendship

The Guide to Friendship

Definition of friendship
Friendship is defined as an interpersonal relationship between two or more humans or higher intelligent animals which exhibit a mutually helping behavior.
Meaning of a friendship

Being friends is a very important ordeal. Without friends, our daily problems would become distorted and seem hundreds of times worse than what they really are. Friendships help us through our bad times and give us peers to have fun with.

Recipe for friendship
Friendship is one of those things which come natural – something that should not be forced or lied about. When looking for a friend, be yourself. Friends will come. As for after the friendship has evolved, friends help each other and do not lie to each other, except white lies. The most important aspect of a friendship however, is trust.

Friends online
Finding friends online may seem easy, but is more trickier than what it looks. Many "chatters" lie about how they are and act a different way in person. No shows, exaggerations and acting "cool" are all too common amongst internet users.

Ending a friendship
Ending a friendship may be a difficult decision. However, sometimes it is unavoidable. The best way is to tell them in person. Many people believe avoidance is the answer when ending a relationship. However, this is not a good technique in that it leaves broken hearts and anger on both sides.

Friends

Dedicated to all my Friends
朋友 Friends
周華健 Emil Chow


这些年 一个人 风也过 雨也走
Ze xie nian, yi ge ren Feng ye guo, yu ye zou
All these years, alone The wind has passed, the rain had gone

有过泪 有过错 还记得 坚持什么
You guo lei, you guo cuo Hai ji de jian chi shen me
There were tears, there were wrongs  Things we hold dear I still recall

真爱过 才会懂 会寂寞 会回首
Zhen ai guo, cai hui dong Hui ji muo, hui hui shou
If you've had true love, then you would know There is loneliness, there are goodbyes

终有梦 终有你 在心中
Zhong you meng, zhong you ni Zai xin zhong
There are dreams, always there is you In my heart

朋友一生一起走 那些日子不再有
Peng you yi sheng yi qi zou Na xie ri zhi bu zhai you
Friends walk this life together Those days will not return

一句话 一辈子 一生情 一杯酒
Yi ju hua, yi bei zhi Yi sheng ching, yi bei jiu
One word, one life A lifetime relationship, a cup of wine

朋友不曾孤单过 一声朋友你会懂
Peng you bu cheng gu tan guo Yi sheng peng you, ni hui dong
With friends you won't be lonelyLifelong friends, you'd understand

还有伤 还有痛 还要走 还有我
Hai you shang, hai you tong Hai yao zou hai you wo
There are wounds, there is pain Must go our separate ways Always there is me